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zylh2008I've been to paradise, but I've never been to me |
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再见 这两个字是两个非常简单的字，其中的意思却往往复杂，
有时是说：“很想再见面。”
 有时是说：“很快就要再见面。”
 有时也可能是说：“永远不要再见面了。”
只有一点是不会变的
——当你说出这两个字的时候，不是在你自己要走的时候，就是在你要别人走的时候。
希望.... 三四五月，从厦门转战南京再到北京和大连，再回到厦门，我的生活总是充满了变数
 鼓浪屿的童话，南普陀的香火，厦大的浪漫，南部海岸的悠闲，郁郁葱葱之间的咖啡馆和小茶楼 ，那一丝悠悠的海浪声，海鸥声，还有钢琴声便是永恒！
 秦淮的画舫不复昨日的香艳，夫子庙的小吃还是那么谗人，乌衣巷，王谢堂里的水井只是历史的陈列，紫金山的王气依旧，玄武湖边的垂柳依依，丁山花园的咖啡苑记忆犹新呵
 长城逛了一天，天安门，王府井逛了一大圈，辛辛苦苦一个人攒下来的照片全部报销，数据恢复软件全要注册密码....
 大连的海边不在感觉有四年前的浪漫，母校的建设如火如荼，金石滩的海水不及昨日的沁蓝哦！
 I am looking forwords to that 下一站——那一个被称之为花园城市的狮城带给我不一样的感觉哦
 The furthest distance in the worldThe furthest distance in the world 世界上最遥远的距离
Is not between life and death 不是生与死 But when I stand in front of you 而是 我就站在你面前 Yet you don't know that I love you 你却不知道我爱你 The furthest distance in the world 世界上最遥远的距离
Is not when I stand in front of you 不是 我就站在你面前 Yet you can't see my love 你却不知道我爱你 But when undoubtedly knowing the love from both 而是明明知道彼此相爱 Yet cannot be together 却不能在一起 The furthest distance in the world 世界上最遥远的距离
Is not being apart while being in love 不是 明明知道彼此相爱 却不能在一起 But when painly cannot resist the yearning 而是 明明无法抵挡这股思念 Yet pretending you have never been in my heart却还得故意装作丝毫没有把你放在心里 The furthest distance in the world 世界上最遥远的距离 掘了一条无法跨越的沟渠 Is not when painly cannot resist the yearning 不是 明明无法抵挡这股思念 yet pretending you have never been in my heart 却还得故意装作丝毫没有把你放在心里 but using one's indifferent heart 而是 用自己冷漠的心对爱你的人 To dig an uncrossable river For the one who loves you What Would You Do?（转）A lot of people seem to be unaware of who they really are... they've never stopped to figure it out, just doing what they've learned that other people expect them to do, what they think they "should" do, rather than what is right for them.
If you would prefer to find fulfillment, rather than just trudging through life, you need to break that mold. You need to really figure out who you are, and what you really want to do.
The good news is that it's pretty easy to do, although some people have trouble with the concept the first time or two. So... are you ready for it? Do you want to know how to find fulfillment in your life?
All you need is a little directed daydreaming... you just need to daydream enough to answer this question:
If you had no responsibilities, no pressures, no need to worry about making money, paying bills, doing chores, or taking care of anyone... what would you do?
This isn't asking what would you do with a billion dollars, and answers like "be with my spouse" don't really answer the question... the question is what would you DO, not who would you do it with.
There is no wrong answer... what you want to do may not be popular, or may even be looked down upon by society, but that has nothing to do with whether or not it's right for you.
I'll get this started by answering the question myself: I would travel a bit (Australia and Italy are at the top of my list), go fishing (hence the picture), write fiction, make things out of wood (particularly furniture), and design clothing (See? It doesn't have to be an "accepted" activity.).
Once you figure out what it is that you would do if you were given complete freedom, why not see if you can work some of that into your life now? I can go fishing, make things out of wood (at least small things, I don't have room anywhere for a workshop), and write without doing anything more than spending a little bit of money and dedicating the time to it. If I knew how to find software that would allow me to alter basic patterns, I might get started on the clothing, too (oh, and find someone to make it for me once I have the pattern... I don't sew, other than patches on my uniform when I was in the Army).
I'm really curious... what would you do? Anyone else for some nice relaxing fishing? If you have any inclination to do so, please answer in the comments... I would really like to know. 三生石（转） 第一世，你为古刹，我为青灯；那一世，你为落花，我为绣女；那一世，你为清石，我为月芽儿；那一世，你为强人，我为骏马。我知道，我将生生世世与你结缘。于是我跪在佛前求了500年，求他让我在最美丽的时候遇见你，求他让我们结一段美丽情愫。佛于是把我变成一棵树，长在你必经的路旁。 阳关下，我慎重地开满了花，朵朵都是我前世的期盼，颤抖的叶是我等待的泪水。然而你，终于无视地走过。在你身后落了一地的，那不是花瓣，那是我凋零的心。我就是这样枯萎了，在我死去的那一瞬间，我看清了你脸上的惊讶，你捧起我的枝叶，泪湿衣襟。那一刻，我含笑。回到佛前，我泪垂不止，长跪不起。佛垂首，叹息。 第二世 那一世，你为皇帝，我为战俘，你是那样意气风发，少年得志。在我父兄叛乱后，你怒发冲冠。我满身愧疚，满身痛楚。你杀光我的族人，抢掠我回宫，带回一个满身素缟的异族王妃。 你说，你等得我好苦，你会爱我，照顾我，生生世世长相厮守。是的，我爱你，在生命的轮回中，我是经过了怎样的期盼与你相逢啊。 然而我，抽出你腰间的匕首刺入自己的心脏。我无声的睁大双眼，轻声说：“对不起。”是的，我就这样自绝在你面前，我很残忍，弥留中，我看到你莫大的悲愤与哀伤，我听见整个宫殿回荡你无助的唉啸，你咬破中指，将一滴鲜血点在我的手腕，指天发誓，以此为印，永不弃我，那一刻，我心碎了 你还记得吗?这是三生石上的第二世。 第三世 我与苦海中挣扎沉浮，哀求了700年，佛终于肯原谅我，向我伸出莲花圣手，让我再次与你相遇 然而你却不记得我了。轻扶手腕，那血红胎迹竟在发烫。为了这前世未了的溯源，我在你孤傲的身资下握住一把残破旧事。:对我微笑吧，即使那微笑里有千里的距离，我也心动。对我怒视吧，若那怒视里有痴心的责备，我亦无悔 然而你只是漠视。每日夜里，我含泪祈祷神明，如果你看了我一眼，我就会幸福的死掉，如果你不看我，我就会痛苦的死掉。是不是爱一个人就是这样生生死死而又心甘情愿？而你，仍然漠视。我等待的心 痛苦又幸福，我微笑地看你从我身边无视地走过，看着你的目光从我头顶越过，有你存在的故事里，怎样的结局都好 夕阳温柔，听耳边许多新鲜又陌生的笑声响起。 What is Happiness?（转） Because happiness is something most of us aim for, how we define it has important implications for how we conduct our lives. To see why, compare these two competing definitions of happiness:
1. Happiness is all about minimising pain and maximising pleasure.
The underlying idea here is that there is a kind of mathematics of happiness. Imagine if on our deathbeds we were able to add up all the moments of pleasure in our lives and then all the moments of pain. The amount by which the pleasures exceeded the pains would tell us how happy we were during our lives. 2. Happiness is satisfaction with life as a whole. On the surface this looks like the same idea but actually it's completely different. Consider the case of Clea Koff, a forensic anthropologist who spent nine years working in Rwanda, digging up the remains of people killed in the 1994 genocide (Bergsma, In press). While this was clearly a gruesome task that would have given most people nightmares, afterwards she explained that the work was meaningful, which made it worthwhile. For Koff, then, happiness was satisfaction that she had done the right thing with her life. Pleasure and pain
The first definition of happiness is perhaps the one most associated with hedonism, and one that is implicitly accepted by many people. But I think the second definition is much better because it makes room for the idea that we give meaning to the things we do.
Happiness is not just a headlong charge towards whatever makes us feel pleasure, it is about finding satisfaction in ourselves and in what we have done. Even when what we have done has been painful, like Clea Koff's work. What's your view? Would you agree with either of these definitions, or does the answer lie somewhere in between, or even elsewhere completely?
What is Life About?When you grieve you can so easily concentrate on death, or dying that you can forget the purpose of life. Life and death are circular friends who dance with each other day in day out…so what is my take on life?
L= Love and to be loved
I = Inspire a legacy which you can be proud of
F= Family and friends and the human bonds that we create, share and experience together
E= Enjoy the rarest gift that we have been given life. You are given the chance to enjoy the world, life has to be about love and enjoyment
That is my take - what would your L.I.F.E acronym stand for? 在汉口游荡．．．岁末在汉口游荡．．．
无求无遇
心凉如雪 法兰西的流行元素1、巴黎的咖啡文化 2、法国的白兰地 3、法国时装 4、法国香水 |
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